“I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year.” –Charles Dickens
There are two seasons that I love. Christmas and Easter. I love the emotions both bring to the surface of my consciousness. I love that both center around our church events and that both are centered in Christ. However, lately I’ve felt burdened about the role I allow Christ to play in our Christmas traditions.
When I was in college learning to be a teacher, we often discussed how to help our students to fully grasp deep concepts. One such approach was the “Contributions Approach.” In this approach we would talk about important issues and events around the holidays or birthdays that celebrated them. For instance, teachers would teach a unit about the Reverend Martin Luther King Jr. and his important contribution to our society around his birthday each year. This approach is an “easy” way to discuss important events and topics while keeping your students on schedule with their pre-planned curriculum. Many teachers use this approach, and have for many generations. The problem is, it doesn’t work very well.
The “Contributions Approach” to teaching doesn’t offer depth. It gives your student a glimpse into the window of a subject, but because the point is to be able to stay on track with other curriculum, it usually doesn’t last more than a couple days and then the teacher moves on to the “more important” curriculum to keep the class on track for the year. Please don’t get me wrong. I’m not condemning teachers who do this, have done this, or will do this in the future. The truth is, it’s easy, and it does garner results—but not the results it would have, had the teacher had–or taken–the time to do things a little differently.
Isn’t this what we do at Christmas? We have so many wonderful traditions. It’s a time for family, friends, and communion. It’s a time when we cherish those around us. And, during this precious time, we pause to remember “The reason for the season.”
Wait, did I say that right?
We pause. We break from our normally scheduled programing to think of Christ. Wow. That doesn’t seem right. We too just give our children a glimpse into the window of what Christ did when he visited our little world, but we don’t give Him anymore time than we have to, so we can keep on track with our other, more important, activities.
When we celebrate our daughter’s birthday every year, we make it an event. She usually has two to three get-togethers—a “friend” party, and a get-together for both sides of her family. We spend time planning out her favorite foods, her favorite activities, and we take time to thank God for Mattie being brought into our lives. What if we did this for Jesus? After all, it’s His birthday. What if we made everything we did about Him instead of about us?
What would that look like you ask? It might not look that different. Maybe instead of meeting for Christmas Eve service and then leaving to meet with your family, you take time at your meal to Welcome Jesus at your table. Maybe you share your favorite part of the Christmas story and why. (I think our kids would definitely benefit from hearing the adults be humble and share how Christ has touched them). Perhaps it’s making an extra spot at your Christmas dinner for a family in need who can’t afford a dinner at all. However, it definitely is taking personal time to connect with that baby in the manger.
At a youth event this last year, I heard a speaker talking about Jesus coming to live with us. I thought he was going to say something generic like, “How would you live if Jesus came to stay at your house?” But this speaker took a different approach. He asked why we haven’t signed the mortgage of our house over to God. That we aren’t to just give him a room and a place at the table—our job is to surrender everything to Him, who was willing to surrender everything for us. That’s a radical mindset and it will change the world. Imagine if this Christmas we did that. Imagine if we didn’t just read the Christmas story to our kids, but we connected with them about the depth that was in it…then imagine if we didn’t just do this at Christmas or at Easter. Imagine if we did it all year round. How would that change us? How would it change our kids? How would that change the world?
Lord, this Christmas, I want to be sold out to you. I want to make You the priority and not just fit You in where I can. This Christmas let my daughter see how much I love you. Let my radical faith be a witness so You can transform her life and the world—just like you did with that sweet baby so many years ago. Help me to honor Christmas in my heart and keep it all year. Amen
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